Sorry for the lack of posts recently! It's been a WHIRLWIND! We've been spending the night at friends' houses, so I haven't had Internet. So, get ready for a long post.
I tried to come here with only having an expectation to at least see and hug my friends. So, most of my time during the day has been spent doing some background work at the house/office, which has been great. I tried to spend that time literally working next to the Ugandans to see how they interact in that setting and spend more time with them. Being intentional... Sometimes it was much easier and more efficient to go elsewhere, but that's not the only reason I'm here. It's opened my eyes to a lot of things here at EAC. There are some HARD working people here that LOVE these kids and truly do want to see them succeed in life. Seriously consider sponsoring one of these kids. It's only $35. http://www.empower-a-child.org/eachome/sponsor.html
We spent the night with our friend Brenda's family, which was so different from sleeping the night at Jayan's place. We were greeted with pure excitement and overwhelming joy that we were there. (Not that Jayans wasn't, but we're more friends to her and not guests). We had homemade juice (you juicers would love it here. There's ALWAyS fresh juice wherever you go) in our hands within minutes. Then came the chopped up carrots and cucumbers.. And then the milk tea. We offered to help cook dinner, which turned into us cooking dinner with Brenda. (Get ready BR people. I'm bringing home the Ugandan spice!). We had to serve it at like 10! We were so embarrassed, but the coals needed to be changed right at the end, which made things really slow down. I think it tasted really good too!-- Brenda's mom showered us with gifts.. Like way too many. She woke up around 4;30/5:00 to finish sewing our stuff. I'm talking about dresses, bags, gifts for our moms, loofahs, etc. She's great. She heard about a girl in her village that wasn't doing well in school, so she wanted to learn to sew. Mama Brenda took in this little girl and is teaching her how to be a seamstress.. No compensation, no questions asked. I mean...really? People in the south are really welcoming and great host, but Ugandans really do top all of that.
You know what's also super encouraging.. These people wake up at like 5:00 to pray for an hour and read the Bible together. I'll wake up close to that time to work out, but rarely simply because I want to have some quiet time with The Lord, and never over an hour early. Reality check. Priority check. Slap in the face.. Whatever you want to call it totally happened. Also, we were running behind because Mama Brenda wanted to finish our gifts. Still, we prayed together, the prayed again, then sang a praise song. Again, reality check. My normal, American instinct would be to get frustrated because I had slept like 8 hours in 2 days, and I'm impatient. I couldn't though.. They were so passionate about it. I want to be more like that.
I got to do some OT evals and treatments! I saw 2 kids with autism and one girl that probably has a genetic condition. I spent a lot of my time just trying to educate the parents and the teachers and staff there. One boy instantly responded really well to deep compression, and I explained that to his teachers and his dad. Not 10 minutes later, I see a teacher yanking him to the bathroom, and he's screaming at the top of his lungs. I gently walk over there and ask if I can help. She gives me this, "sure, but it's not going to help" look. So, I go over there and start doing some deep compression and repeating, "you're okay. You're okay." He calms down, and I tell him it's bathroom time and then snack time. He gets up and walks to the that room without a peep. Hopefully my actions are going to speak louder than my words did. I even got to show his teacher aide the best way to get him from point A to point B when he was being a little stubborn. He wandered into our play room and wouldn't leave for her.
Saying goodbyes are never, ever easy, so it's just "see you later" for now. When I left last time, I promised I would be back. I honestly wasn't so sure I could uphold that promise anytime soon. I can confidently say "see you later" to my friends here. One of my best friends lives here. I have to come back. I also can't see all of these little kids in the orphanages and see their living situation and not come back. I can't change the world, as much as I would like to, but I can change the life of at least one kid that doesn't know what family is like and has never experienced love like that
. You can't even pick the babies up at one orphanage because they won't stop crying when you put them down. They all crave love so much. It's so hard.
Here's some of the last pictures from my Uganda pictures... At least for this visit. :)
Us with Brenda!
And Mama Brenda!
Is this boy not the cutest? We stayed at his awesome house last night, and we watched him for the day. His mom is from the UK, and his dad is Ugandan. They met at the deaf school when Genni was here in 2009. It's so cute to see Dom signing with his daddy.. I mean melt your heart to pieces cute. He LOVES his daddy.
He would jump in, swim to the ladder and climb out and do it all over again.
We brought a neighborhood boy too. Sarah was teaching Owen how to swim. PRECIOUS, precious little boy and family. It was sweet seeing him with Dominic. They bonded instantly. Owen, who only had posho (flour and water) for lunch willingly cut up his sausage for Dominic and gave him as many fries as he wanted. He held his hand as we walked down the street, etc.
Little nugget was all tuckered out after a very busy and exciting day.
I'm leaving with a very full heart and a renewed spirit, and I'm so thankful for that.
Praise The Lord!
Auntie Brooke aka "auntie B" because Brooke is hard for Dom to say. :)